There are 3 vital tools that can help you to grow and become successful in whatever you wish. Self-Reliance and learning to think for yourselves and expanding our education continuously is one vital tool. We must first know what our passion is and what we enjoy doing. Finally, determination, do we have what it takes to keep at it until we become successful.
By Valerie A Dawson
Mastering the conscious use of the Law of Attraction depends on your ability to expand your own confidence, knowledge and skill. Developing the three qualities below will help you form a solid foundation upon which your success can grow:
Self-Reliance
Do you sometimes feel as if you need to take a formal “course” in manifestation to master it? We often turn over much of our power to institutions and programs and that dispense knowledge and forget that we ourselves can be our greatest teachers - and this is especially true when it comes to attracting abundance into our lives. Formal education is certainly a valuable and positive way to enhance our opportunities in life, but it often falls short by failing to emphasize the importance of thinking for ourselves and expanding our education continuously. Self-education can be more lucrative than limiting ourselves to what others teach us. If we make an effort to learn from every experience, we will embark on a journey of consistent inner growth and evolvement that will pay off forever. Not only will we find it easier to make more money, we will expand and enrich every aspect of our lives.
Passion
We cannot become wildly successful at something we don’t enjoy. Yet many of us start out trying to do just that. We see a person who is successful at a specific activity and we think that we could attain success too if we just follow their example. Eventually we realize that success has nothing to do with the activity, but has everything to do with the person who is performing the activity.
Another challenge is that many of us have no idea what we love to do - or how to earn money doing it even if we do have an idea. This is where self-reflection can be a useful tool, because deep inside we truly do know the answers to both of these questions. We simply have to ask and listen for the guidance that inevitably follows.
Determination
When we look back at past goals we set and never achieved, it is often clear that we made poor progress because we didn’t care enough to put forth a strong intensity of effort. Conversely, there may have been things we wanted so desperately that we did whatever it took to make them happen. Failure was simply not an option with those goals. Which category do your current goals and aspirations fall into? Are you truly willing to do whatever it takes to achieve them, or do you often find yourself losing determination or procrastinating when it comes time to work on them? If it’s the latter, you may want to spend some time tweaking your goal until it becomes so important that you can’t NOT achieve it.
Can it be this easy? Is this all it takes to create wealth in your life? The answer will surprise you. Grab your complimentary "The 7 Biggest Mistakes People Make with the Law of Attraction and Money and How YOU Can Avoid Them" http://www.thinkrichclub.com Valerie Dawson is the Founder of TheDawsonMethod.
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Which of These 3 Self Defeating Mistakes Are You Making?
In the quest for creating and/or manifesting more money in their lives, I see many people making the following mistakes. Most of the time, they are not even aware that they are doing it, at least not consciously. So let's take a look at 3 of the most self defeating mistakes people make, and then what to do instead.
By Veronica Hay
In the quest for creating and/or manifesting more money in their lives, I see many people making the following mistakes. Most of the time, they are not even aware that they are doing it, at least not consciously. So let’s take a look at 3 of the most self defeating mistakes people make, and then what to do instead.
Mistake #1 - They get busy figuring out how they are going to make it (wealth) happen for them. They try to think of ways to save money or work more hours in order to get more money or come up with a plan of action. In short, they get in their own way.
What to do instead: Allow. Allow. Allow. Start from the end desire. Write down what it is you are wanting to have /create and then allow the universe to bring it to you. Do only those things that you feel guided / inspired to do in the direction of your goals/ dreams. Those things that feel good, and you will be led one step at a time to your destination. Remember, focus on the end result / desire, not how you are going to get there or where it is going to come from. Don’t put limits on yourself or the universe. Stay open to possibilities and delightful surprises along the way.
Mistake #2 - They feel safe “playing small”. Playing small is comfortable. Playing big would require them to move out of their comfort zone. It may require that they put themselves out there and that can be a scary thing, so they procrastinate, or avoid or delay and do whatever it takes to put things off, for just another day, or another week, or another month, or another year, or another lifetime!
What to do instead: Decide to, as they say, feel the fear and do it anyway? Take small steps in the direction of your dreams. Do one small (or big) thing every day or week that you have been afraid to do and keep moving forward with that. Pretty soon, you will begin to feel less and less afraid and more and more confident and exited about your life as you begin to see your victories and accomplishments take shape.
Mistake #3 - They focus on what they don’t want. They are caught up in their own story of lack and limitation and they talk about it constantly to themselves and to others. They speak about how they can’t make ends meet, lament about how they are so tired of the struggle, and moan about how depressing things are. The more they do this, the more stuck, powerless and frustrated they feel.
What to do instead: Simply really! Focus on what you DO want. Choose wealth and tell yourself that nothing else is acceptable. Think, speak and act as if you are already wealthy now. Imagine your life the way you would like it to be. Start by being grateful for all of the abundance of blessings you already have in your life and focus on those. Gratitude opens doors! It paves the way to wealth and prosperity like nothing else. It can line your pockets with gold and fill your bank account quicker than a New York minute.
And if you would like some help in allowing more prosperity into your life, then I invite you to claim your free instant access to our Wealth Without Limits - Self-Improvement Series - Lesson 1, as well as many other goodies and bonuses when you visit: http://www.insightsandinspirations.com/gift.html You will find a free uplifting audio and inspiring video there for you to use as well. From Veronica Hay - The Prosperity Poet
By Veronica Hay
In the quest for creating and/or manifesting more money in their lives, I see many people making the following mistakes. Most of the time, they are not even aware that they are doing it, at least not consciously. So let’s take a look at 3 of the most self defeating mistakes people make, and then what to do instead.
Mistake #1 - They get busy figuring out how they are going to make it (wealth) happen for them. They try to think of ways to save money or work more hours in order to get more money or come up with a plan of action. In short, they get in their own way.
What to do instead: Allow. Allow. Allow. Start from the end desire. Write down what it is you are wanting to have /create and then allow the universe to bring it to you. Do only those things that you feel guided / inspired to do in the direction of your goals/ dreams. Those things that feel good, and you will be led one step at a time to your destination. Remember, focus on the end result / desire, not how you are going to get there or where it is going to come from. Don’t put limits on yourself or the universe. Stay open to possibilities and delightful surprises along the way.
Mistake #2 - They feel safe “playing small”. Playing small is comfortable. Playing big would require them to move out of their comfort zone. It may require that they put themselves out there and that can be a scary thing, so they procrastinate, or avoid or delay and do whatever it takes to put things off, for just another day, or another week, or another month, or another year, or another lifetime!
What to do instead: Decide to, as they say, feel the fear and do it anyway? Take small steps in the direction of your dreams. Do one small (or big) thing every day or week that you have been afraid to do and keep moving forward with that. Pretty soon, you will begin to feel less and less afraid and more and more confident and exited about your life as you begin to see your victories and accomplishments take shape.
Mistake #3 - They focus on what they don’t want. They are caught up in their own story of lack and limitation and they talk about it constantly to themselves and to others. They speak about how they can’t make ends meet, lament about how they are so tired of the struggle, and moan about how depressing things are. The more they do this, the more stuck, powerless and frustrated they feel.
What to do instead: Simply really! Focus on what you DO want. Choose wealth and tell yourself that nothing else is acceptable. Think, speak and act as if you are already wealthy now. Imagine your life the way you would like it to be. Start by being grateful for all of the abundance of blessings you already have in your life and focus on those. Gratitude opens doors! It paves the way to wealth and prosperity like nothing else. It can line your pockets with gold and fill your bank account quicker than a New York minute.
And if you would like some help in allowing more prosperity into your life, then I invite you to claim your free instant access to our Wealth Without Limits - Self-Improvement Series - Lesson 1, as well as many other goodies and bonuses when you visit: http://www.insightsandinspirations.com/gift.html You will find a free uplifting audio and inspiring video there for you to use as well. From Veronica Hay - The Prosperity Poet
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